Make
Yourself Unstoppable!
When
people don't get what they want, it is only that they
stopped themselves short of achieving their goal. They
didn't think, they sabotaged themselves, they didn't use the
resources they had, they lied about what they wanted; in
some fashion they just stopped.
Note how
you stop yourself from getting absolutely and completely
what you want. This is not an exhaustive list. You are
encouraged to add your own unique patterns of how you stop
yourself.
Catch
yourself when you stop, however it is that you do that, and
put yourself back on track, creatively going for what you
want with full determination and passion. Don't make your
pattern into a lifelong project, either (another way to
stop). Be rigorous about eliminating your
ineffectiveness!
A coach
can help get to the bottom of persistent self-sabotage, and
help you generate a set of skills and mindset to
consistently achieve even greater success in your work and
life.
- Take
on tasks that are too big
- Take
tiny or inconsequential actions
- Not
take any action
- Not
getting results
- Excessive
busyness
- Going
through the motions
- Incomplete
work
- Inconsistent
effort
- Trying
to do it all yourself
- Not
celebrate accomplishment
- No
discipline
- No
eye on the results
- Obsessed
with detail
- Ignore
the details
- Not
setting priorities
- Changing
goals, plans, etc.
- Being
disorganized
- Obsessive
organizing & list-making
- Not
manageable or coachable
- Easily
distracted
- Being
confused
- Think
about the problem
- No
thinking, just action
- Not
getting new resources
- Procrastination
- Fanciful
fantasies
- Don't
pay attention
- Lying
about what is happening
- Not
accurate about what is happening
- Not
know what is happening
- Not
being passionately curious
- Avoid
or deny responsibility
- Not
hold others responsible
- Endless
preparation
- No
planning
- Not
following the plan
- Blindly
following the plan
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- Getting
upset
- Succumb
to your moods
- Causing
upsets
- Drama
- Suffer,
or have it be hard
- Being
stuck in being stuck
- Lots
of stuff to get over
- Complaining
- Blaming
others or things
- Needing
to be right
- Making
others or things wrong
- Make
yourself wrong
- Excuses,
stories or justifications
- Waiting
for others or something to happen
- Wait
for motivation
- Leaving
it to fate, magic, etc.
- Considering
something impossible
- Perfectionism
- Killing
off relationship
- Out
of communication
- Not
listening
- Avoiding
anything or anyone
- Attacking
others
- Controlling
others
- Stop
other's leadership
- Stop
other's contribution
- Asking
for, then refusing help or ideas
- Withholding
from others
- Not
trusting
- Trusting
foolishly
- Excessive
rules
- No
rules
- Not
know the rules
- Ignore
the rules
- "Anything
goes"
- Too
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- Any
other symptoms of not going for it
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