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Make Yourself Unstoppable!

 

When people don't get what they want, it is only that they stopped themselves short of achieving their goal. They didn't think, they sabotaged themselves, they didn't use the resources they had, they lied about what they wanted; in some fashion they just stopped.

Note how you stop yourself from getting absolutely and completely what you want. This is not an exhaustive list. You are encouraged to add your own unique patterns of how you stop yourself.

Catch yourself when you stop, however it is that you do that, and put yourself back on track, creatively going for what you want with full determination and passion. Don't make your pattern into a lifelong project, either (another way to stop). Be rigorous about eliminating your ineffectiveness!

A coach can help get to the bottom of persistent self-sabotage, and help you generate a set of skills and mindset to consistently achieve even greater success in your work and life.

  • Take on tasks that are too big
  • Take tiny or inconsequential actions
  • Not take any action
  • Not getting results
  • Excessive busyness
  • Going through the motions
  • Incomplete work
  • Inconsistent effort
  • Trying to do it all yourself
  • Not celebrate accomplishment
  • No discipline
  • No eye on the results
  • Obsessed with detail
  • Ignore the details
  • Not setting priorities
  • Changing goals, plans, etc.
  • Being disorganized
  • Obsessive organizing & list-making
  • Not manageable or coachable
  • Easily distracted
  • Being confused
  • Think about the problem
  • No thinking, just action
  • Not getting new resources
  • Procrastination
  • Fanciful fantasies
  • Don't pay attention
  • Lying about what is happening
  • Not accurate about what is happening
  • Not know what is happening
  • Not being passionately curious
  • Avoid or deny responsibility
  • Not hold others responsible
  • Endless preparation
  • No planning
  • Not following the plan
  • Blindly following the plan
  • Getting upset
  • Succumb to your moods
  • Causing upsets
  • Drama
  • Suffer, or have it be hard
  • Being stuck in being stuck
  • Lots of stuff to get over
  • Complaining
  • Blaming others or things
  • Needing to be right
  • Making others or things wrong
  • Make yourself wrong
  • Excuses, stories or justifications
  • Waiting for others or something to happen
  • Wait for motivation
  • Leaving it to fate, magic, etc.
  • Considering something impossible
  • Perfectionism
  • Killing off relationship
  • Out of communication
  • Not listening
  • Avoiding anything or anyone
  • Attacking others
  • Controlling others
  • Stop other's leadership
  • Stop other's contribution
  • Asking for, then refusing help or ideas
  • Withholding from others
  • Not trusting
  • Trusting foolishly
  • Excessive rules
  • No rules
  • Not know the rules
  • Ignore the rules
  • "Anything goes"
  • Too _____
  • Any other symptoms of not going for it

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